I've been wanting to talk about kink with my partner for a long time, but I didn't know how to start the conversation. Most of what I learned came from what I could glean from kinky partners I'd had in the past... and I knew it wasn't going to be enough to get him started.

this book was perfect!

We took turns reading it, underlining parts we liked, taking notes in the margins. I was surprised... it even helped me become a better sub! I wasn't expecting that.

its an easy read too, even taking notes and passing the book back and forth we managed to get through it in less than a week

(I remember this because we had our first play session that weekend!)